"Discover intentional spiritual parenting." The Legacy Path, by Brian Haynes, is a guide for parents who wish to pass on their faith to the next generations but who may lack the skills to do so. After building a strong foundation upon biblical views of life and success in chapters 1-4, Haynes lays out seven milestones by which we can guide our children through life. With each milestone, he gives core competencies which parents should seek to instill in their children as they approach the next milestone. Practical suggestions for faith talks and milestone celebrations are plenteous, as are the extra resources available online.
As a parent who fluctuates between "we've got this parenting thing down pat" and "we don't have a clue what we're doing," I found Haynes' book to be quite beneficial. While I'm not sure the milestones for our children will look exactly like his, I found great relief to read through a plan that looks ahead and not just at the present. Honestly, if every parent could get hold of the truths in chapters 1-4, we'd be living in a different culture (or at least sub-culture). Those chapters alone are worth the price of the book. An emphasis on the fact that we exist for God, that we must abide in Christ, and that building on the rock means defining success as loving God wholly by following Christ and loving people as Jesus does leaves the reader with much to ponder as a parent. We have a huge task at hand--but we also have the Holy Spirit of God within us to give us wisdom along the way! If you feel perplexed about the task of spiritually parenting your children, get a copy of this book and be encouraged. "No one has been designed as perfectly as you to be the primary faith influencer in the life of your child." (pg 12)
I also found Haynes' many illustrations and insights from his trips to Israel of particular interest. I learned a few things about various Bible passages that I'd never known before--things that illuminate my understanding and deepen my appreciation of God's Word! Again, worth the price of the book.
As an English major, I have to throw in that I found improper comma usage to be rather distracting as I was reading (but who else would even notice?). Also, I was disappointed in the list of traits of a godly woman as most of them were from Proverbs 31 and none were from the New Testament. Traits like submissiveness, self-control, godliness, good works, kindness, purity, and a quiet spirit should absolutely be in that list. Those traits aren't as popular in our feminist culture, but they are biblical!!!
Overall, I highly recommend The Legacy Path. It's a great resource for any parent seeking biblical wisdom regarding the spiritual formation of their children.
Tuesday, April 3, 2012
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
We Be Big, by Rick Burgess & Bill "Bubba" Bussey
We Be Big: The Mostly True Story of How Two Kids from Calhoun County, Alabama, became Rick & Bubba is an auto-biography written by both Rick and Bubba (with the help of Don Keith). The book is broken into 20 chapters, with each chapter alternating between Rick's and Bubba's perspectives. Early in their lives (before they meet in college), the alternating format is a bit confusing, but by the time they meet, the stories converge and the narrative is fluid. The book is an easy read, written on a popular level, and holds your attention well, especially chapter 8 and following (when they talk about the show).
The first seven chapters are about their early childhoods, their school experiences, their meeting in college, and their early (and separate) work careers. In chapters 8-20 the story unfolds with the evolution of their radio show. The two men's personalities come through in their writing, which makes the book a funny, yet thoughtful, read. They speak openly of their personal lives and their faith. Rick and Bubba's Christianity shines throughout this book, but especially in the last four chapters, which recount the events surrounding the death of Rick's child. Both Rick and Bubba highlight how God used such a tragic event to reach many people both inside and outside their radio audience.
The book could be summarized from a quote in the final chapter: "How we became 'big' is simple... we allowed God to guide us. We took what He gave us, and we ran with it. As long as we continue to do that, He will continue to bless us."
I would highly recommend this book to anyone, even those who have not listened to the show (like me). It's a great story about a couple of Christians living the American dream.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze®.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own.
The first seven chapters are about their early childhoods, their school experiences, their meeting in college, and their early (and separate) work careers. In chapters 8-20 the story unfolds with the evolution of their radio show. The two men's personalities come through in their writing, which makes the book a funny, yet thoughtful, read. They speak openly of their personal lives and their faith. Rick and Bubba's Christianity shines throughout this book, but especially in the last four chapters, which recount the events surrounding the death of Rick's child. Both Rick and Bubba highlight how God used such a tragic event to reach many people both inside and outside their radio audience.
The book could be summarized from a quote in the final chapter: "How we became 'big' is simple... we allowed God to guide us. We took what He gave us, and we ran with it. As long as we continue to do that, He will continue to bless us."
I would highly recommend this book to anyone, even those who have not listened to the show (like me). It's a great story about a couple of Christians living the American dream.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze®.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own.
Friday, May 6, 2011
A Tale of Three Kings by Gene Edwards--audio
A Tale of Three Kings, by Gene Edwards, is a book primarily dealing with the author's perceived proper response to attacks on your person or on your ministry. The audio version, which was supplied me from ChristianAudio for review, was read by Paul Michael, who does an excellent job narrating.
The book deals with the lives of three kings, Saul, David, and Absalom, and how they dealt with conflict in their lives. Edwards takes the framework of the biblical narrative and fills in the gaps with great imagination. Any time I encounter extra-biblical imaginative fiction, I cringe. The scene early in the book where David is playing his harp and kills the bear with his slingshot doesn't seem to fit the biblical description of David delivering a lamb out of the mouth of the bear. It just seems an inherent trap in biblical fiction to legendize elements of the story.
Where this book really fails is its attempt to flip-flop between fiction and exhortation. For example, chapters 1-3 are colorful fiction about David and his rise to Saul's court, but then chapters 4 and beyond try to take the spear-throwing episode and exhort the reader to apply the vague truth of spear-throwing. It's quite a stretch and really unclear. Chapter 12 starts the fiction-exhortation cycle again... It's a disaster. Edwards would have been better off to focus on allegorical fiction and allow the reader to draw his own conclusions. The back-and-forth throughout the book is distracting and really breaks the flow of the book.
Overall, I would NOT recommend this book to anyone.
The book deals with the lives of three kings, Saul, David, and Absalom, and how they dealt with conflict in their lives. Edwards takes the framework of the biblical narrative and fills in the gaps with great imagination. Any time I encounter extra-biblical imaginative fiction, I cringe. The scene early in the book where David is playing his harp and kills the bear with his slingshot doesn't seem to fit the biblical description of David delivering a lamb out of the mouth of the bear. It just seems an inherent trap in biblical fiction to legendize elements of the story.
Where this book really fails is its attempt to flip-flop between fiction and exhortation. For example, chapters 1-3 are colorful fiction about David and his rise to Saul's court, but then chapters 4 and beyond try to take the spear-throwing episode and exhort the reader to apply the vague truth of spear-throwing. It's quite a stretch and really unclear. Chapter 12 starts the fiction-exhortation cycle again... It's a disaster. Edwards would have been better off to focus on allegorical fiction and allow the reader to draw his own conclusions. The back-and-forth throughout the book is distracting and really breaks the flow of the book.
Overall, I would NOT recommend this book to anyone.
The Radical Disciple by John Stott--audio
The Radical Disciple, by John Stott, is divided into 8 chapters covering different aspects of discipleship: non-conformity, Christ-likeness, maturity, creation-care, simplicity, balance, dependence, and death. The audio version, which was supplied to me by ChristianAudio for review, is read by Grover Gardener. In my opinion, his narration style is perfect for this type of book.
Stott does a fantastic job of articulating real abandonment in the pursuit of Christ. His chapters on non-conformity, balance, and death alone made the book worth reading. The problem with listening to an audio version is that there are so many quotable sentences that I found myself wishing for a hard copy to refer back to. Because of Stott's style, there are also sentences where a hard copy would have been useful in order to stop and dissect sentences and spend some time contemplating them.
There are two critiques I would offer for the book. 1) The chapter on creation-care seems to push the limits toward environmentalism (though it could be just my reaction to our current culture's fascination with "global warming"). He makes some good statements, and I wouldn't want to throw the baby out with the bath water, but the extent to which he takes the subject feels a bit too much. 2) The chapter on simplicity left me a little disappointed. He highlights materialism earlier in the book, stating that he'll deal with it more in-depth in the chapter on simplicity, but instead of some type of biblical exegesis (where Stott excels) he re-prints a statement from the International Consultation on Simple Lifestyle. Stott easily could have done so much more with that chapter.
Overall, I would recommend the book, if nothing more than for those excellent chapters I mentioned above.
Stott does a fantastic job of articulating real abandonment in the pursuit of Christ. His chapters on non-conformity, balance, and death alone made the book worth reading. The problem with listening to an audio version is that there are so many quotable sentences that I found myself wishing for a hard copy to refer back to. Because of Stott's style, there are also sentences where a hard copy would have been useful in order to stop and dissect sentences and spend some time contemplating them.
There are two critiques I would offer for the book. 1) The chapter on creation-care seems to push the limits toward environmentalism (though it could be just my reaction to our current culture's fascination with "global warming"). He makes some good statements, and I wouldn't want to throw the baby out with the bath water, but the extent to which he takes the subject feels a bit too much. 2) The chapter on simplicity left me a little disappointed. He highlights materialism earlier in the book, stating that he'll deal with it more in-depth in the chapter on simplicity, but instead of some type of biblical exegesis (where Stott excels) he re-prints a statement from the International Consultation on Simple Lifestyle. Stott easily could have done so much more with that chapter.
Overall, I would recommend the book, if nothing more than for those excellent chapters I mentioned above.
Tuesday, March 8, 2011
The Truth About Dating, Love, and Just Being Friends By Chad Eastham
The Truth About Dating, Love, and Just Being Friends, by Chad Eastham, is the best book on teenage relationships I've ever read! Candid, funny, and insightful, Eastham really knows how to connect with teens--and tell them what they need to hear. A proper view of God and self and relationships is SO important during the crazy teenage years, and this book gives just that without being preachy. Eastham challeges teens to use their God-given brains, explaining that people can do things well, or they can do them poorly. Dating is no exception.
As a twenty-something mother who dated well, I still wish I'd had this book as a teen! There is so much helpful, insightful information here that I had to learn from experience. If only I'd had someone to share this information in such an open, friendly way when I was in the middle of it!
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze®.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own.
As a twenty-something mother who dated well, I still wish I'd had this book as a teen! There is so much helpful, insightful information here that I had to learn from experience. If only I'd had someone to share this information in such an open, friendly way when I was in the middle of it!
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze®.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own.
Wednesday, March 2, 2011
Justified by Faith Alone by R.C. Sproul
Justified by Faith Alone by R.C. Sproul is a short little book, but packed with great insight and tight logic. It is written on a pretty high level of vocabulary, so I wouldn't recommend it to the person who is only casually interested in the subject. It is more like a college professor lecture than a devotional book written about faith. If you are looking for an academic look at the subject, you will not be disappointed.
The book is written as a recap of the struggle the reformers faced with the Roman Catholic Church. Although much of the book is rooted in historical arguments, Dr. Sproul mentions many contemporary issues that stem from the distinction evangelicals have in sola fide. It is not concerned with additional arguments, such as monergism vs synergism, so both Arminians and Calvinists would find it to represent their views.
Just over an hour in length, the audio is crisp and the narrator does a great job, even with the Latin phrases.
The christianaudio Reviewers Program (http://christianaudio.com) provided me with a copy of R.C. Sproul’s Justified By Faith Alone. My thoughts and opinions are my own.
The book is written as a recap of the struggle the reformers faced with the Roman Catholic Church. Although much of the book is rooted in historical arguments, Dr. Sproul mentions many contemporary issues that stem from the distinction evangelicals have in sola fide. It is not concerned with additional arguments, such as monergism vs synergism, so both Arminians and Calvinists would find it to represent their views.
Just over an hour in length, the audio is crisp and the narrator does a great job, even with the Latin phrases.
The christianaudio Reviewers Program (http://christianaudio.com) provided me with a copy of R.C. Sproul’s Justified By Faith Alone. My thoughts and opinions are my own.
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
The Truth of the Matter, by Andrew Klavan
The Truth of the Matter, by Andrew Klavan, is a compelling, action-packed page turner. Charlie West is an ordinary high school student who woke up to find that he was in the clutches of terrorists and wanted by the police for murder. To top it off, he has no memory of the events of the past year. Having found the one person who can unlock the secrets of his past, Charlie begins the painful--and dangerous--journey to discovering the truth... and it is far more incredible than he could have imagined.
Written as an action series for teenage guys, Klavan's work is both contemporary and captivating. As a mother of two small children, I found this to be an easy read, and I would compare it to watching a season of 24 (minus the outrageous body count). The things Charlie experiences are outrageous, but then, this is fiction, isn't it? I felt like I was reading the mind of a teenage boy (which was an interesting thing to experience) as he struggled through weighty issues while encountering danger after danger. Charlie West is an unlikely hero, and his bravery (not bravado) is grounded in Truth. I had not read the first two books of the series, but Klavan gives enough background info that I was able to keep up with the story. I would highly recommend this book to any teen interested in thrilling action. Hang on tight, though, 'cause it's a wild ride from start to finish!
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own.
Written as an action series for teenage guys, Klavan's work is both contemporary and captivating. As a mother of two small children, I found this to be an easy read, and I would compare it to watching a season of 24 (minus the outrageous body count). The things Charlie experiences are outrageous, but then, this is fiction, isn't it? I felt like I was reading the mind of a teenage boy (which was an interesting thing to experience) as he struggled through weighty issues while encountering danger after danger. Charlie West is an unlikely hero, and his bravery (not bravado) is grounded in Truth. I had not read the first two books of the series, but Klavan gives enough background info that I was able to keep up with the story. I would highly recommend this book to any teen interested in thrilling action. Hang on tight, though, 'cause it's a wild ride from start to finish!
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own.
Thursday, November 4, 2010
Dining with Joy, by Rachel Hauck
Witty, captivating, and with a sound ring of Truth, Dining with Joy is an absorbing page-turner. Joy Ballard, daughter of a renowned cooking show host who left his offspring to run the show at his untimely death, is hiding the awful secret that she can't cook. Luke Redmond, a talented chef who failed as a restauranteur, seems to be Joy's way out. The chemistry between Joy and Luke as they each work through their own baggage, and the sinister rivalry of television cook Wenda Devine, make the plot especially delicious. The characters are intense and genuine, and the narrative of two individuals who are truly seeking the will of God is inspiring.
I grew up devouring Grace Livingston Hill's novels, but it's been a number of years since I've picked up a Christian romance. Not since living out my own, real-life love story have I sought out a fictitious one--mostly because I'm too busy for it. When this book came up for review, though, I was intrigued to dive into it. I quickly noted one thing about Hauck's writing that reminded me why I was such a fan of Hill: her story and characters model those things which are true and right while still being real and relatable. The way Luke and Joy try to keep their passions in check while seeking God's will first is uplifting. Instead of igniting wrong passions and unrealistic expectations, this novel has made me thankful for the relationships I do have (with God and with my husband), and it has made me appreciate once again the many qualities about my husband that first attracted me to him. Dining with Joy is an excellent work of fiction--I can't wait to get my hands on the rest of the series!
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own.
Monday, October 11, 2010
In Transforming Church in Rural America, Shannon O'Dell describes his journey from being the pastor of a vibrant, growing metropolitan church to pastoring in a city in Arkansas with a population of 88. He details the struggles of growing a small, traditional church that says it wants change, but resists it. O'Dell relates personal anecdotes and gives advice to those who wish to see growth in their local church.
When I first received this book, I was a little skeptical, because I've seen this type of book before: some guy was successful, and now he thinks his method will work in your church. I was pleasantly surprised, though, by several things in the book: 1) O'Dell is not as concerned with growing a big congregation as with growing his individual congregants (a line he uses several times in the book.) 2) While he admits to being an "emergent-type" guy, O'Dell portrays sound theology throughout the book. 3) O'Dell gives advice to those seeking change, but it's not specific (style of worship, type of dress, etc.); his advice is more general and principle-based (i.e. excellence in worship, leaders casting strong vision, etc.). The only red flag I saw is that O'Dell has been there less than a decade. On one side, that is amazing, because he has seen tremendous growth in just a few years; however, the book would have greater strength with time-tested evidence to prove that the principles in this book work for more than just temporary growth.
Like every book, there are some ideas with which you will not agree, some statements that will cause you to stop and think, and some genuinely great ideas. All in all, this is definitely a book I would recommend.
Monday, October 4, 2010
The Treasure of God's Word: Celebrating 400 Years of the King James Bible
This is a beautifully-bound gift book, with a hard imitation leather cover and gold-trimmed pages that make it feel somewhat like a Bible. It's designed along the lines of a devotional book, as it contains a selection of Scripture passages from the KJV grouped according to topic (i.e. God's Compassion, God's Holiness, Our Hope, etc.) and interspersed with mini-articles on the 400-year history of the KJV.
As an English major who grew up on the KJV, I was curious to read this book. I was impressed with the quality of the book's presentation, but based on the description, I expected it to be filled with information regarding the history and influence of the KJV. Instead, it is filled with a plethora of topical passages from the KJV with only a scant 22 pages of information about its history and influence. While the mini-articles contain interesting facts the average person might not know (such as, the KJV contained the Apocrypha through the 1769 version), the articles felt too short and trite, like a brief overview instead of an anniversary tribute. The copyright page even says that two of the articles were adapted from wikipedia.com! The KJV is certainly something worth celebrating, as its impact on the English language has been quite profound, but I think this book falls short of doing it justice.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the Book Sneeze book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own.
As an English major who grew up on the KJV, I was curious to read this book. I was impressed with the quality of the book's presentation, but based on the description, I expected it to be filled with information regarding the history and influence of the KJV. Instead, it is filled with a plethora of topical passages from the KJV with only a scant 22 pages of information about its history and influence. While the mini-articles contain interesting facts the average person might not know (such as, the KJV contained the Apocrypha through the 1769 version), the articles felt too short and trite, like a brief overview instead of an anniversary tribute. The copyright page even says that two of the articles were adapted from wikipedia.com! The KJV is certainly something worth celebrating, as its impact on the English language has been quite profound, but I think this book falls short of doing it justice.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the Book Sneeze book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own.
Monday, September 27, 2010
Love and Respect for a Lifetime, by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
"Women absolutely need love. Men absolutely need respect. It's as simple and as complicated as that." Love and Respect for a Lifetime is the condensed gift version of Dr. Eggrichs' book Love & Respect. It is a beautifully-bound edition filled with attractive layouts highlighting important quotes and quality stock photos illustrating the various points throughout the book. In six mini-chapters, the basic biblical principles of love and respect in marriage are stylishly presented, highlighting important truths for a healthy, God-ordained marriage.
This book is an easy read--I read it carefully cover to cover in about twenty minutes. However, there are many deep truths and important biblical principles that take time to digest, making this book a great resource for future reference. Love and Respect for a Lifetime is filled with Scripture and a healthy God-centered approach to marriage. This beautiful edition is the perfect gift for a wedding or anniversary, assuming the couple already has a desire to please God in their marriage. I would not recommend this book to a couple who are having serious marital problems, though, as it is too much of a generalized overview for that scenario. If one or the other partner is selfishly uninterested in sacrificing to make the marriage better, then it will probably take more than a series of quotes and suggestions to make a difference. However, for willing hearts and committed couples, the biblical advice in this book could make an OK marriage great! Especially from the start!
This book is an easy read--I read it carefully cover to cover in about twenty minutes. However, there are many deep truths and important biblical principles that take time to digest, making this book a great resource for future reference. Love and Respect for a Lifetime is filled with Scripture and a healthy God-centered approach to marriage. This beautiful edition is the perfect gift for a wedding or anniversary, assuming the couple already has a desire to please God in their marriage. I would not recommend this book to a couple who are having serious marital problems, though, as it is too much of a generalized overview for that scenario. If one or the other partner is selfishly uninterested in sacrificing to make the marriage better, then it will probably take more than a series of quotes and suggestions to make a difference. However, for willing hearts and committed couples, the biblical advice in this book could make an OK marriage great! Especially from the start!
Monday, September 20, 2010
100 Prayers, 100 Praise Songs by Stephen Elkins, Ill. by Tim O'Connor
100 Prayers, 100 Praise Songs is a devotional-type book of prayers for children with accompanying music for each prayer. When I first saw the book, I thought "Great, what kind of quality prayers could be included in a book of 100 of them?" The answer is, fantastic ones! While this book is geared toward young children, it is filled with famous prayers from Bible heroes, poets, authors, and historical figures. Accompanied with tastefully vibrant illustrations, each prayer focuses little minds on God--and teaches them to pray! The song that accompanies each prayer is conveniently marked at the top of each page for easy reference.
This book came in the mail just as we were beginning serious potty training with our three-year-old. Since each prayer is rather short, I figured this would be a good book to read during sits in the bathroom, to accommodate the varying lengths of each visit. We'd typically read 3-5 prayers at a time, unaccompanied by the music because of our location. Although we didn't go through the book as a devotional one prayer at a time, my little guy--who relishes books in general--absolutely loves it! He even calls it his other Bible. Ha! The prayers are short enough to keep his interest, and usually something on each page sparks a conversation--including the artistic illustrations. This book makes a great addition to our library, and we love having a tool that helps us teach the many facets of prayer. Today I even caught our sweet boy reading this book to his "baby" who was "going potty"--he was teaching his doll the same truths we're trying to instill in him!
The only disappointment for me was that we can't just pop the CD in and let it play all the way through. The music is just too upbeat and the voices too grating for that. But I imagine that for one song at a time--as was intended--it would be about right. Once our newborn is old enough to participate in family prayer time with his older brother, we'll probably revisit this one for its intended purpose. I have no doubt it will be a big hit.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
This book came in the mail just as we were beginning serious potty training with our three-year-old. Since each prayer is rather short, I figured this would be a good book to read during sits in the bathroom, to accommodate the varying lengths of each visit. We'd typically read 3-5 prayers at a time, unaccompanied by the music because of our location. Although we didn't go through the book as a devotional one prayer at a time, my little guy--who relishes books in general--absolutely loves it! He even calls it his other Bible. Ha! The prayers are short enough to keep his interest, and usually something on each page sparks a conversation--including the artistic illustrations. This book makes a great addition to our library, and we love having a tool that helps us teach the many facets of prayer. Today I even caught our sweet boy reading this book to his "baby" who was "going potty"--he was teaching his doll the same truths we're trying to instill in him!
The only disappointment for me was that we can't just pop the CD in and let it play all the way through. The music is just too upbeat and the voices too grating for that. But I imagine that for one song at a time--as was intended--it would be about right. Once our newborn is old enough to participate in family prayer time with his older brother, we'll probably revisit this one for its intended purpose. I have no doubt it will be a big hit.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
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